GET YOUR FEELINGS OUT
This is what I read on Instagram a while ago.
"You didn't reply, but I got your message."
*blinks*
I don't know about guys but y'all have to know, we, as girls, really tend to overthink. We DO tend to get our insecurities in the way sometimes.
And it's not that we are unaware of it. We know that, and we're working on it.
So please be patient with us.
I want to tell you, whoever you are and if you're reading this, or if you feel connected to me in any way; I want to let you know that if when you're talking to a guy or a girl you like or even if it's a friend, you gotta remember one damn thing all the time.
DO NOT SUPPRESS YOUR NEGATIVE FEELINGS.
LOOK Y'ALL, IF I COULD WRITE THIS A HUNDRED TIMES, I WOULD.
DON'T DON'T DON'T DO IT.
There is a MIND-BLOWING book which I once read, called "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"
It says there how suppressing negative feelings will ultimately sabotage your relationship and damage positive feelings too.
What I'm saying is, YOU GOTTA GET IT OUT.
SO OK, HE MIGHT LEAVE. HE MIGHT SAY "Sorry, but I don't like you that way". He might even break off your friendship.
SO WHAT?? It will be hard, but it won't be harder than what you feel when you're keeping the whole thing bottled up inside you.
You know I'm speaking the truth. YOU KNOW the truth.
I'm not saying unleash your emotional mountain on him. Not like that.
I'm saying, connect with him in such a way that both of you HONOUR all of your feelings. Respect your feelings. Respect his.
And he will do the same. He will.
He's not going to respect your feelings if you don't respect yours enough to get it out.
~Insane Little Brunette, urging you to go ahead and communicate.
"You didn't reply, but I got your message."
*blinks*
I don't know about guys but y'all have to know, we, as girls, really tend to overthink. We DO tend to get our insecurities in the way sometimes.
And it's not that we are unaware of it. We know that, and we're working on it.
So please be patient with us.
I want to tell you, whoever you are and if you're reading this, or if you feel connected to me in any way; I want to let you know that if when you're talking to a guy or a girl you like or even if it's a friend, you gotta remember one damn thing all the time.
DO NOT SUPPRESS YOUR NEGATIVE FEELINGS.
LOOK Y'ALL, IF I COULD WRITE THIS A HUNDRED TIMES, I WOULD.
DON'T DON'T DON'T DO IT.
There is a MIND-BLOWING book which I once read, called "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"
It says there how suppressing negative feelings will ultimately sabotage your relationship and damage positive feelings too.
What I'm saying is, YOU GOTTA GET IT OUT.
SO OK, HE MIGHT LEAVE. HE MIGHT SAY "Sorry, but I don't like you that way". He might even break off your friendship.
SO WHAT?? It will be hard, but it won't be harder than what you feel when you're keeping the whole thing bottled up inside you.
You know I'm speaking the truth. YOU KNOW the truth.
I'm not saying unleash your emotional mountain on him. Not like that.
I'm saying, connect with him in such a way that both of you HONOUR all of your feelings. Respect your feelings. Respect his.
And he will do the same. He will.
He's not going to respect your feelings if you don't respect yours enough to get it out.
~Insane Little Brunette, urging you to go ahead and communicate.
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